It's not always easy to recognize someone. Years
ago when I was chaplain at Carthage College in Kenosha, Wisconsin,
I knew two women who looked very much alike to me. One was a member
of our church, and another worked at the college. One time I met the
woman from our church on the college campus, and much to my embarrassment
I called her by the college employee's name. I didn't really recognize
her outside the context where I knew her.
It's not always easy to recognize someone. But why
in the world would these two disciples on the road to Emmaus not recognize
Jesus? Had they not spent a good three years following Jesus, spending
significant amounts of time together? One answer to this puzzle is
similar to my problem in Kenosha - quite understandably they were
not expecting to see Jesus. He may have talked about rising from the
dead, but that didn't register with them. No matter how much this
person walking with them looked like Jesus, it couldn't be Jesus because
he was dead.
Another answer to this puzzle lies with the words
in the Greek original, "their eyes were kept from recognizing him."
What kept their eyes from recognizing Jesus? This could be the same
answer; their assuming that Jesus was still dead kept them from recognizing
him. But often in the Bible in a pious effort to avoid using God's
name in vain, authors use a passive verb to refer to God. Luke may
be saying that God kept the disciples from recognizing Jesus. This
adds a puzzle on top of a puzzle. Why would God do that? Perhaps to
allow for the rich experience of this story. First, Jesus uses the
time to lay out the Old Testament foundation for what he did and what
happened to him, and secondly, the disciples recognize Jesus when
he took the bread, blessed and broke it - reminding them of the Last
Supper and pointing to the sharing of Communion as a time for recognizing
the presence of Christ among us.
It's not always easy to recognize someone. Are there
times when we don't recognize the presence of Christ among us? Like
those disciples, we may not recognize the presence of Christ because
of our expectations. They expected that Jesus was the one to redeem
Israel/set Israel free. What that meant for them was that they assumed
Jesus would lead them to freedom from their Roman oppressors. Instead
the Romans crucified him. Jesus disappointed those expectations.
We may share similar expectations. We may expect that
faith in God will give us all manner of blessings. There are those
today who preach a prosperity Gospel, promising that firm faith will
result in wealth and success. If we hear the Gospels, though, we hear
Jesus inviting his followers to take up their crosses and follow him.
Jesus invites his disciples to a life of serving others, not being
served. In faith we affirm that we are blessed in many ways, yes,
but if that's the primary expectation we have of our faith in Christ,
we too may be disappointed.
What should we expect? Or where should we look to
recognize the presence of Christ? There's no one answer to these questions,
but I can't help but remember when Jesus said, "Just as you did it
to the least of these, you did it to me." One place to recognize Christ,
as unexpected as this continues to be, is in the face of "the least
of these" - neighbors in need. Christ may appear to us in many forms
- in the spouse who needs our attention, in the child or parent who
needs our care, in the friend who needs a listening ear, in the stranger
whose need we encounter, in the people in our communities who need
help with health insurance or hunger or employment.
Also, like those disciples, we may not recognize the
presence of Christ because God keeps us from recognizing Jesus. I
don't know that I want to stress this, because we may wonder why God
would toy with us in such a way. Yet I have often had a sense that
some times are better suited for growth in faith than others, or that
what might have been learned one time seemed more relevant or more
powerful or more touching at another time. God may reserve an experience
of recognizing the presence of the risen Christ for a time when it
will touch or transform us most deeply.
Consider Rhonda, our fictional member who returned
to church two years ago at Easter time after a number of years away
from church. Her older daughter is Wanda, a successful lawyer living
and working downtown. Although their relationship has been getting
better, Wanda has been estranged from her mother and from church for
many years and has had a difficult time accepting Rhonda's return
to church. Wanda has always been driven to succeed, first in school,
then in work, working long and hard to accomplish this success. She
has repeated a pattern that is common among adult children of alcoholics.
You may recall that Rhonda's husband, Vincent, was an alcoholic who
was killed in a single car accident on the Eisenhower while he was
driving drunk. Adult children of alcoholics are often super-achievers
because they have become accustomed to working hard either to avoid
the anger of an alcoholic parent or to gain the attention of a parent
absorbed in his or her addiction. Rhonda has become aware of these
dimensions of their family life. She does recognize that Wanda made
some of her own choices in how to handle the problems in their home
life, but Rhonda also recognizes that she was so consumed with the
problems she faced with Vincent that she did not give Wanda the positive
attention she needed and deserved. She looks back on Wanda's school
years as a time when she was blind - blind to how caring and creative
and hard-working Wanda was, blind to some of the needs for affirmation
and attention Wanda signaled, blind to the ways Wanda was a blessing
for her. Rhonda has been trying to make amends in some ways by working
at restoring a more positive relationship with her daughter. She was
thinking about this especially this weekend, for they had a really
good time together yesterday. Rhonda agreed to host a couple of the
St. Olaf choir members, and Wanda volunteered to help. It turns out
that Wanda has some colleagues in her law office who are St. Olaf
alumni. Rhonda was a little worried about the hosting - she hasn't
been around college kids for a while - but she needn't have worried
for Wanda was really good at talking with the choir members and making
them feel at home. Rhonda's house hasn't been filled with such laughter
and good conversation for a long time. As she settled into bed, she
wondered why this better relationship hasn't developed earlier. As
she drifted into sleep, the thought occurred to her that she wouldn't
have been ready earlier - that recognizing the blessing that Wanda
is to her depended on her coming back to an awareness of how much
God loves her and how loving God in turn involves loving others and
seeing Christ in them.
Recognizing Jesus is not always an easy matter. May
God's Spirit open our eyes to see the presence of the risen Christ
around us, especially in the "least of these," his brothers and sisters.
Amen.